I don’t know if it happens with everybody or not but sometimes we grown up feeling unsafely in our lives always afraid of tomorrow and afraid of people too not only life, and I am talking about feeling safe in our homes first because from that place we grow up while our parents feed that feeling with there care, with being around together trying there best to make us feel a safe, because The perception of feeling safe is influenced by family and friends, that’s what make us enjoy every moment of our lives without worrying about anything so we grow up with much confidence in ourselves and in the others, and not feeling afraid of what tomorrow will bring with it to us, but only if we had a awakening parents who know the important of that, but if we have ordinary parents- and that’s the way for most of people- the situation become different, cause those parents don’t really know what can happened to there kids because of feeling unsafely after they become adults. In spite of this I think we can build our personal safety by believing in ourselves because our self-respect worth to stand for and we always have to remind ourselves that we have the ability to keep ourselves safe no matter what.
That’s all I could write in moment of feeling unsafely, but whatever what happened to me I always believe in myself, and when we believe in ourselves nothing can stand in our face, and I think we deserve to be safe after all.
décembre 20, 2006 à 17:45 |
Sure, growing up in a safe place by advised parents it’s real luck in this world.
But, I think that parents have to prepare their childern to be adults one day!
responsability, having good friends, …
Adult life is too cruel! sometimes i wish i could return to my child-time.
décembre 20, 2006 à 18:56 |
i wish to comeback to my childhood too but only to take different desicions in what concern my future as an adult , cause i think im tuff enought even that i feel un safe sometimes but i think its Life.